And there are so many more things you can do to let him chase you. This is key: Remember that you are a “wonderful catch.” Any man would be lucky to get you!
I grew up as a member of the homeschool community back when we were hiding from the cops and getting our textbooks from public school dumpsters.
She had predicted the failure of courtship back in the 90s and I wanted to understand how and why. After 20 years there still is no general consensus as to what courtship is.
Second, if he has brought it up, he’s been thinking about it and wants to see your reaction.
When you aren’t really “thinking” about it and want someone “wonderful” you just told the hunter what he has to do catch his “intended prey.” Let the producer produce!
If he says this to you, he wants you to see what a great producer he is. He knows he’ll never have you mounted on his wall and likes it that way. I’ve quoted this before in my blogs and here it is again. Tell him something along the lines of this: “I really want you to be happy. Let him “explore all those possibilities” if there are any. If he’s a jerk, and leaves you-you win because who needs that? You let him “chase you” by letting him call, letting him make the plans. (After you’re an established couple, yes you can start calling him) 4.
When asked the key to her successful marriage she said “When my husband gets a little complacent, I pack a bag and stay gone! If he’s just trying to get the reaction, get ready for flowers. (and yes…you let him know what you would like to do, too! It’s something you’ve been working at, excelling at and enjoy. You don’t tell him every detail of your life, so he wonders what you’re up to. You don’t have to tell him what you are doing every minute of every day.
When I was a teenager, my friends started reading this new book called I Kissed Dating Goodbye. After reading it myself, I grew into as big an opponent of dating as you could find.